Right, if you know me in real life you may want to not read the rest of this post.
If you do, be warned its at your own risk. I accept no responsibility for any real world issues arising from this post.
This is my blog, its somewhere I can talk about things I can’t necessarily talk about out in the real world, or that perhaps I want talk through before I’m ready or comfortable talking about them in the real world.
Please bear that in mind. Ok?
So it turns out that I didn’t have a tummy bug or a strange queasy-feeling hangover after some pink wine with Mr Muddling last week.
It turned out that, yet again, my fabulous acupuncture man has done his wonders with his needles and has managed to get me, and more importantly, keep me pregnant.
Whilst it is still early days we are expecting Muddling Mark 3 February/March time next year.
In the real world we are holding off telling anyone because we just don’t know how this pregnancy is going to turn out.
We’re really hoping that it will be better than the time we had with Littler but, being realists, we know that there is a strong chance that this baby will also try and arrive very early and perhaps given I’m a bit older and everything else, that there is a chance that this baby might not make it. Added to which is the usual higher risks of various things going wrong because I’m now on the wrong side of 35.
So you see, I need to have the space to write about this here, even whilst I’m keeping quiet about it in the real world.
Not least because I’m already feeling sick. And yes, I know that’s a seen as a good sign but last time that good sign had me admitted to hospital to be rehydrated.
And I’m suffering from a maelstrom of hormones, up one minute, down the next, needy and weepy.
And I’m exhausted. Exhausted as in going to bed at 9.30 and waking up at 7am and still being shattered.
All of which are good signs but hard to live with if you can’t tell anyone.
So I guess that is why I’m telling you…
Because importantly this blog kept me together during my pregnancy with Littler, through the hyperemesis, through the hospital visits, through the bed rest and, whilst I’m hoping this pregnancy will be nothing like that, I do still need this blog to be there for me.

















Wonderful news!! Congratulations. Three children is wonderful!!! I hope everything goes smoothly.
Keeping everything crossed for you. Lovely news x
Wow. Congratulations and I can completely understand your nervousness. My pgs were a health nightmare too – although I have to say the 3rd was better than all the rest. Fingers crossed for you. Lots of love xx
Brilliant news. I shall keep everything crossed for you and I hope the sickness doesn’t get too bad for you. xxx
Congratulations! I hope you have a better experience this time and that everything stays good. xxx
What lovely news – hope things go smoothly between now and March!
Massive congratulations! How wonderful, I’m so pleased for you. Fingers crossed for a happy and healthy pregnancy.
Hey, lovely news for a grey, cloudy day! I’m sure all will go well. Congrats!
Oh my lovely, congratulations, what wonderful news!
I will keep my fingers crossed that the sickness/tiredness is not too awful xx
Huge huge congratulations. So happy for you. Hope the sickness isnt like last time for you
Lovely news! Congratulations.
I hope, with all my heart, that you have a very healthy & happy 9mths xxx
Oh darling how brilliant!!!!! Congratulations to you both.
Here with you ALL the way. Lots and lots of love xxxxx
Wow, congratulations! Lots of positive thinking and fingers crossed for a wonderful, enjoyable, healthy pregnancy, Lx
Huge congratulations. That is amazing news. x
Lovely news lovely. Well done. xx
Great news … thinking positively xx
Ah congratulations. I was wondering why you were so sure you didn’t need those ov sticks! Such lovely news, and hoping you have a better pregnancy this time round s
Congratulations! I have everything crossed for a boring and uneventful pregnancy. x
Congratulations. Fingers crossed all goes well for you.
Squeeeee! I’m so so thrilled for you, congratulations and fingers crossed for the most dull pregnancy (baby arrival excluded) xxx
I am so thrilled for you. So so thrilled! (I was going to write squeeeee, but I was beaten to it!)
You know I’m here if you need me – for anything.
And much love xxxx
Oh wow, MASSIVE congratulations. Excited squeals and all.
And fingers crossed for an easy journey for you and little Muddling. xxx
Congrats – keeping my fingers crossed for you x
Awww. Wishing you all the best and keeping everything crossed for you.
That’s brilliant news – congratulations! Will keep fingers and toes crossed that everything goes smoothly for you and Muddling #3.
This is amazing news, I remember those terrible dark days of pregnancy hell and will ne here if you need me
Big congratulations! I hope everything goes better this time around :)
just wanted to add my best wishes, congratulations, good vibes and fingers crossed type stuff XX
Congratulations! Hope everything goes smoothly for you xx
Wonderful news! Keeping everything crossed for you. X
Oh what fabulous news. Congratulations. I will keep my fingers crossed for an uncomplicated pregnancy for you and the new Muddling x
Congratulations, I’m so pleased for you. Hope everything goes really well x x x
Oh My Goodness! Amazing news! I will keep everything crossed for you. S x
Reporting for hand-holding duties…
So, so pleased for you! I don’t know if you’d remember me, but I was on the same trimester threads as you on a certain forum when you were pregnant with Littler (not under this name though). I’m just into 2nd tri with my second, so a little way ahead of you this time – hope your 1st tri isn’t too brutal, and the rest of your pregnancy is nice and boring!
Congratulations! Hope you start feeling less rubbish soon and that it all goes safely and smoothly.
What wonderful news, huge congratulations! Really hope that all goes well and that it is your best pregnancy yet.
Excellent news, you’ll be fine, I am sure. Lots of love and hugs! xx
*squeals* lovely news!
Have everything crossed for you that no matter what the pregnancy holds, this one will make it safe and sound into the world to terrorise and be adored by the other 2. Thank you for sharing the babydust. I’m hopeful I’ll be a few months behind you. I have the same tests & am working the magic needles so figure luck is on my side ;)
congratulations. lots of hugs to you. Take care of yourself.
Congratulations, and well done for wanting to take on Naples again!
Nappies (damn iPad auto spell) although Naples is also very nice!
Hurrah! Yay, wonderful news, I am very happy for you.
Congratulations, what wonderful news!!! Take care!
Congratulations! I hope all goes well – having had a nightmare second pregnancy, I can totally sympathise with nervousness about having a third. My fingers are crossed for you.
To reiterate my twit wishes,
hige congrats hope it goes well x
Congratulations! Be sure I’ll be there with you. x
Congratulations! Wonderful news! Looks like I will be entering the world of three children around the same time as you next spring. Best wishes for a very healthy and uneventful pregnancy xx
Congrats, excellent news, wishing you so much luck that things go ok.
Ooh, congratulations. Try Natal Hypnotherapy cd for morning sickness, and travel sickness bands. Worked for me, but ginger didn’t! As for tiredness… impossible to schedule in rest time when you already have kids eh?! Hope it goes well for you.
Thanks for the tip – its been HG the last few times but at least this time keeping a full tummy and hydrated is going ok which is either a good sign or a bad sign…