If you read this blog regularly then you may remember the whole Getting my Mojo back thing earlier this year. I haven’t really updated on that since, well, after one lovely weekend away just the two of us, things went back to largely how they had been previously. As in not much of anything, not much in the way of affection, or time together.
Admittedly it was largely driven by Mr Muddling being frantically busy at work – its hard to do much if you aren’t around or exhausted when you are around.
I got more and more miserable and just sort of assumed things might get better at some point. If I’m being honest I even considered whether to outsource the whole thing – not that I’m sure there’s much interest in a frumpy, tired, ratty mummy. Didn’t consider it very much because where would I find the time for something like that.
So life pottered on.
Except recently things seem to have changed a bit.
Mr is a bit more considerate, a bit more affectionate, a bit more like the person I used to like.
We even had a fun dinner out together at the weekend (thank heavens for a good babysitter) and have made plans to go out and have fun together rather than separately. Things feel a bit more hopeful, a bit more together, a bit more possible.
So who knows, is it possible to fall back in love with someone? Even after having been divided by a chasm that seemed to be insurmountable?
Have you done it? Can it be done?